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Doritos, cheese, and salsa are fine for a stoner snack, but as a ritual? We fall into ruts that are hard to break out of, but we do it.
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Stop wondering. It seems that there's been an alarming drop in our nookie sessions. Between andthe percentage of people in their 50s who say they have sex at least once a week took about a point plunge for both sexes women dropped from 43 to 32 percent, and men from 49 to 41 percent. The somethings aren't special; most other age groups saw a drop in their frequency of sex, too.
And guess what? They're not happy about it.
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The survey found that only 43 percent of older Americans say they're satisfied tjat their sex lives down from 51 percent inwhile the percentage who are dissatisfied with their sex lives increased. Save Money: Get AARP member discounts on travel, shopping and more. The chill isn't confined to the bedroom, sadly.Ladies Want Real Sex NC Raleigh 27601
The percentage of people who say they engage in affectionate acts like hugging, Needing someone that enjoys sex as much as i do 41, and caressing at least once a week also fell between and About half enjoy such simple nurturing activities at least weekly, although those with a regular partner are much more likely to report such frequency.
So, what caused the recent nosedive? Good question. We're certainly not more prudish. What's more, fewer survey respondents agree that "there's too much emphasis on sex today" than they did in though maybe Janet Jackson's wardrobe malfunction at the Super Bowl had us fed up back then. Research has long shown that money worries sap sex, and with the recent unemployment scourge, yo-yoing k s and rampaging foreclosures, there's been no shortage in worries. Horny woman Mullion put it mildly, financial stress is probably hitting midlifers below the belt.
People complain of feeling distant, disconnected, and emotionally bound up.
Not surprisingly, more Americans believe that having a healthier bank account would get their home fires burning. Se probably right: Healthy people with no financial worries and low stress levels and, of course, a partner handy have the most sex, and are most likely to say they have "extremely satisfying" sexual relationships.
Among people in their 50s, about 42 percent of men and 15 percent of women say they indulge in self-stimulation "about once a week" or "more than once a week. They win for sheer frequency; 48 percent of singles with regular partners have sex at least once a week, compared to only 36 percent of married folks.Adult Singles Dating In New Middletown, Indiana (IN
It's no surprise that 60 percent say they're satisfied with their sex lives, compared to 52 percent of their hitched peers and just 19 percent of the single-but-not-dating crowd.
When it comes to a sizzling love life, finding a partner seems to trump marrying a spouse.
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In men, for every year after 40, the sex hormone testosterone drops by about one per cent, with one in five men tested showing low levels, says Vivek Wadhwa, consultant urological surgeon at Spire Parkway Hospital and Heart of England NHS Foundation Trust.
It's also common for men's erections to become less reliable after 40, says Cate Campbell, a psychosexual medicine specialist and author of The Relate Guide to Sex and Intimacy. Still, "there's no point simply prescribing Viagra if a man's testosterone is low", says Wadhwa.
Your GP can refer you to a urologist who can measure testosterone levels and, if needed, prescribe replacement through gel, patches or injections.
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However, he advises that men see a specialist urologist "as testosterone supplementation in men with an undiagnosed prostate cancer can feed its growth". If testosterone doesn't work, however, drugs such as Viagra or the newer Cialis can be taken. While the former takes about 40 minutes to work and can be taken up to twice a week in mg dosages, the latter can be taken in a 5mg once-a-day dosage.
This means "levels in the blood stay stable, so the sex needn't be planned", says Wadhwa. If you have erectile dysfunction, ensure you have Needing someone that enjoys sex as much as i do 41 screening for cardiovascular disease risk before taking drugs.
Sex and the menopause.
Sex researchers Masters and Johnson found that in middle age, women tended to take less time to reach orgasm than men, but hormones could still have an impact. Locally applied oestrogen cream, which can be prescribed by your family doctor, in small doses "is like using a very expensive night moisturiser", she says.